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I am currently in the social work department at Metro State. I
read a case study that detailed the story of one woman and her
children's experience at a domestic violence shelter. I was
amazed at what they had experienced and the extreme measures they had
to resort to in order to find what I take for granted - a safe place to
be.
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I have been on the Board of Directors of Gateway since November of 2004
and am thrilled to be a part of this vital organization that offers its
services in such a compassionate and professional way.
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The reason I chose to work in the Domestic Violence movement is because
domestic violence has been a serious issue for many years while people
look the other way thinking this is only a "family problem".
Domestic Violence is a crime.
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I chose to work in the domestic violence movement after I did a class
project. For the project I interviewed a Gateway counselor about
the services provided. I was so impressed with what Gateway did
to help women and children, that when it came time for my internship I
chose Gateway. I have been helping out ever since.
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The reason I chose to work in the domestic violence movement is my
desire to change people's perceptions about "why she stays" and educate
the community around the facts - especially that DV is not limited by
socio-economic boundaries.
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I don't have a 'big' story that's behind my decision
to help women and
children who are victims of domestic violence. I grew up in an
intact family and felt loved and supported. I hadn't experienced
physical abuse in my adult life and until I took part in Gateway's
volunteer orientation I never thought I lived in an emotionally abusive
environment.
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The reason I chose to work in the domestic violence movement is because, as a
survivor of domestic violence, it's very important to me to give back
what was given to me by Gateway. I believe I wouldn't even be here today if it weren't for Gateway.
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The reason I chose to work in the domestic violence movement is because
both my sister and her son (my nephew) were physically and verbally
abused during her marriage, and the results have
followed both of them for years after the marriage ended.
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The reason I chose to work in the domestic violence movement is prior
to being involved in the movement, I had many misconceptions about
DV. Working with the Staff of Gateway has cleared up so many of
those misconceptions and educated me to the cycle of violence and what
can be done to help the victims.
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Those who are or have been in a domestic violence situation know
plenty about fear. I am gripped with fear wondering what mood he
will be in when he gets home. I’ve learned quickly to tread lightly as
I try to read his moods. Is he upset about work? Did I forget to
do something he asked me to do? Did the kids upset him?
Panic stifles the air in my lungs as once again I recognize the fire of
rage in his eyes. I know what to expect. It’s only a matter of
time.
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My favorite Gateway memory is a connection that I established with a
woman who called the crisis line many Saturdays - really just wanting a
listening ear. I do not know, to this day, if she ever chose to leave
her batterer; but I was glad that she felt a connection and knew that
she had options no matter what her final decision became.
-Peggy Sanborn
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