Mary called the crisis line very upset
requesting information on the cycle of violence. She stated she had
been married to Bob for 26 years and has a 16-year-old daughter. For
most of their marriage, Bob had been physically and emotionally
abusive. She described several severe physical abuse incidents that
resulted in broken ribs and a concussion. By the end of the
conversation, Mary disclosed that she has had a double mastectomy and
has much difficulty dealing with her cancer. She also revealed that she
was a professor and was terrified at reaching out because of her
profession and issues with her daughter. She said her daughter was not
aware of the abuse and that her husband was turning her daughter
against her. Mary and the counselor discussed safety plans and then
faxed her information on the cycle of violence, the power and control
wheel and characteristics of a batterer and victim. A time was arranged
to fax the information when her husband was out and discussed where to
keep it so he would not find it. After receiving the fax, Mary called
back to express her thanks. Several days later, Mary called again to
request referrals for a therapist. We discussed the nonresidential
program and private options. We talked with her about self-esteem. Mary
contacted a psychologist through her health plan and still stays in
touch. Her psychologist will refer her back for ongoing support
services.
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Last Updated ( Saturday, June 09 2007 )
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